Question:
Chinese people’s strong family values, we get married before the man regardless of how the economy, on the eve of marriage to the woman must buy some jewelry or clothing that he watches as a gift of good faith, may be the meaning of bride price.
Even if the poor say that the person can not afford to buy a house, buy clothes, but to watch such a fiancee is a usual practice.

but I have a good friend, she is going to marry a British man 10 years older than her that is to be married, I saw nothing the man bought her, as if only a little to buy cosmetics and an MP3.
I find it very strange that the cultural differences between China and the West is really a great man even before marriage send that woman’s clothes jewelry.

in the West, the custom is really true? understanding of Western customs and people to talk about ..

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if you are not very outstanding, foreign men in general will not you look very natural and can not be compared to their treatment of women. most of all from a simple, cursory understanding.
as a middle class home (or proletariat) of the men, to a remote place in Africa to marry an African girl Like women in general than those treated in the treatment of a reason to be poor.
in the eyes of foreigners where you are, in fact, is a remote place, and even China.
do not have much relationship with the Chinese and Western cultures, and love you nor the number of relations. with his eyes whether or not the Chinese people of the powerful senior.

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rather than cultural differences, but individual differences. Most Westerners have to send in the ring when the marriage. To bid farewell to what a lot of people. Similarly, the Chinese people have only to send a scarf on the marriage.

example you say that only the British or poor, or stingy, or too elegant disdain in the conventional, or not to ignore your friends, or. . . Who knows. But he can not represent the “Westerners.” you are not

not seen the movie, most people should know that you propose to send ring. However

“bride price” is not the concept of most western countries. There is not much to send clothes, because clothes are the issue of personal preference. No more than watch. Cosmetics, bags, jewelry, what’s more. And then send the money cars, houses.

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agree with the views of the upper floors

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mean enough of the man.压根or not to take seriously the good friends

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would he want to give your friends to a surprise, so before making this?

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more of this to look down on people He also married
why I have a friend is also married abroad, and that men and back to the parents of my friends bought a villa.
returned to her mother a lot of other platinum jewelry, to her father to buy the Department of vehicles.
fact, it is not to say anything more than just good
This is a respect for the woman of his girlfriend to see a very important
advised that you should not marry a foreigner, or will have been wronged Why marry in the
so far, or a more this is not your mind is not worth
men

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why your friends who marries a foreigner, the Chinese men are not all right? ? ? ? ? ?崇洋媚外deserve

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Chinese men are stingy or not to marry压根woman seriously. Foreign men are not necessarily as small as you say. They tried to curry favor with many people of Chinese women. I think you should be friends do not find British people not to turn back to her son, and was not happy the bar, and bring disgrace upon itself.

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Oh individual differences. Many people are now the Western world in order to marry the Chinese woman for his wife proud. Because the means to marry her after the Chinese family in perfect order, virtuous, beautiful, talented.
may be on your friends and family in order to catch Okay, so there is no great importance. Great She-year-old people, it is estimated that the veteran has long been in love marriage. Who the pursuit of the former marriage who is very important.2007-11-05
问题:
中国人的家庭观念强,我们结婚前,男方不论经济如何,在结婚前夕都要给女方买一些服装首饰或者手表作为礼物表示他的诚意,可能是聘礼的意思.
即使说这人很穷买不起房子,但给未婚妻买衣服手表这种习俗是惯有的.

可是我有一个好朋友,她要嫁的是一个英国人,那个男人比她大10岁,说是都要结婚了,我看见那男人什么也没给她买,好象只买了一点化妆品和一个MP3.
我觉得很奇怪,中西方的文化差异真的很大,结婚前男方竟然不送一点女方衣服首饰.

在西方,风俗真的都是如此吗?了解西方风俗的人来讨论一下..

回答:
如果你不是很杰出,一般外国男人不会把你看得很重,自然不能和本国女性待遇相比. 多数是一切从简单,草草了解.
如同国内一个中产阶级(或无产阶级)的男性,到非洲一个偏僻的地方娶一位非洲姑娘一样,一般都比对待国内女性的待遇要差 是一个道理.
在外国人眼里 你所在的地方,其实就是个偏僻的地方,甚至中国.
与中西文化没有多少关系,与爱不爱你也没多少关系.与他眼中的中国人是否强大 高级有关.

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不是文化差异，而是个人差异。西方人大部分都要在求婚时送钻戒。送别的东西的人也很多。同样，中国人也有只送一条纱巾就结婚的。

你说的例子只说明那个英国人或者穷，或者小气，或者过于高雅不屑于俗套，或者不把你的朋友当回事，或者。。。谁知道。但他代表不了“西方人”。

你又不是没看过电影，应该知道大部分人求婚送钻戒吧。

不过“聘礼”这个概念大部分西方国家没有。还有送衣服不多，因为衣服有个人喜好问题。手表也不多。化妆品、包、首饰什么的多一些。再有钱就送车、房子。

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同意楼上的意见

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那男人够吝啬的。或者压根没把那好朋友当回事

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会不会他想给你朋友来一个惊喜,所以才这样?

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更本就看不起人还嫁给他干吗
我有个朋友也嫁到国外,那男的还给我朋友的爸爸妈妈买了一栋别墅.
还给她妈妈别了好多白金首饰,给她爸爸买部车.
其实也不是给的东西多就说他好
只是这是对女方的尊重,说明他把女朋友看的很重要
劝你还是不要嫁给那老外了,不然以后会受委屈的
何必嫁的那么远,还是一个更本不 把你放在心上的男人
不值得

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你的朋友为什么嫁给外国人，中国男人都不行吗？？？？？？崇洋媚外活该

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中国男人也有吝啬鬼，或者压根没把要娶的女人当回事。外国男人也不一定都像你说的那样小气。，他们费尽心机讨好中国女人的大有人在。我看是你的朋友根本就不应该找个英国人，轮到人家不拿她当回子事，心里不痛快了吧，自取其辱。

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哈

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个人差异哦。现在西方世界很多人以娶中国女子为太太为荣的。因为娶中国太太意味着以后家里井井有条，贤惠，漂亮，能干。
你朋友可能是上赶着和人家好吧，所以不重视。人家大她十岁，估计早就恋爱婚姻老手了。婚姻前谁追求谁是很重要的。